About 40 years ago, I was in a very difficult, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't know what to do, and all my work with Christian counselors was not very helpful. I commuted 45 minutes one way daily to work, and I listened in the car to a Denver-based Christian radio station. Focus on the Family was on in the mornings as I drove. I don't remember the exact topic that sparked my interest, but one day I called Focus on the Family for help. I've never forgotten that the counselor was very compassionate, supportive, and concerned for my safety. I also got help from Dr. Dobson's book, Love Must Be Tough. Eventually I made the decision to end the marriage. I also remember hearing Dr. Dobson and Shirley talk about their courtship and how he had jilted her at one point by saying that they should date other people. He admitted later that it hurt him to see her out on dates with other fellows. Years later, after they were married, Shirley admitted that she had gone home after the breakup and collapsed, sobbing, behind the door. Yet she did not let Jim know for a long time. I will miss Dr. Dobson's voice of reason and kindness. I will look forward to meeting him in Heaven some day. My condolences to Shirley and the family.
PreviousI was a newlywed in 1979, when the local churches came together to host the showing of the series Turn Your Heart Toward Home. We did not have children at the time, but Dr. Dobson's witty, scriptural advice and concern for the families of our country had me hooked. In 1982, when my first daughter was born, I began to seek out anything that Focus on the Family was producing. Even though my husband and I both had somewhat dysfunctional families growing up, I was determined to raise our kids in a Christian, loving home. My daughters both looked to Dr. Dobson when they began their families. Both have grown into productive, Christian women who are wonderful mothers. We now have 10 grandchildren from 5 years old to 16 years old. What a blessing to have a close family that continues to serve the Lord through the generations. I will continue to advocate seeking the sound wisdom from the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute. Thank you, Dr. Dobson. You will be missed!
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